Getting what you want seems to be a near miss for so many people, if they even get in the ballpark! Part of the key to getting what you want is knowing exactly what it is you desire. It must be something that creates a deep longing, deep enough for you to be able to focus on it, and only it, to the exclusion of all others. Focusing on one thing can be very difficult and takes practice.

Ask yourself:
1. What is the one thing you want more than anything else?

That question may not be as easy as it seems. It seems easy to say, for instance, you want a relationship with a particular person, but what if that person isn’t as she or he appears? And, what of that person’s free will? Perhaps a better desire would be a loving relationship with your ideal partner. This isn’t as narrow and specific as the original request; by being more general about your desire, you are much more likely to get what you want. You’re being more open to all the goodness the universe has to offer you.

After you have figured out exactly what it is that you want, focus on it. You can’t focus on a few different things; you must focus on one thing at a time. Otherwise, your energy will be scattered, and you will not fully realize your desire. It’s kind of like souring the pot with too many things. Focus and believe. Then ask the universe (or God or whatever higher power you ascribe to) for your desire.

Getting what you want takes effort, so you will have to practice focusing on your desire every day, several times a day. Set aside a time and place where you won’t be disturbed. Then, think positive thoughts about your desire and believe you will receive it.